It’s interesting to note that when most people think of taking risks, what they’re thinking of is risking money. But many of the risks people fail to take – and the possible rewards they miss – actually cost nothing. These risks are personal. We meet an energetic, upbeat service person while shopping and we fail to engage them. We’re afraid. We have a friend we believe could benefit from our product or opportunity and we’re worried about what they might think. We don’t make the call.
We don’t put ourselves “out there”.
In her book, Pathfinders, researcher Gail Sheehy revealed one of the more surprising common behaviors of “truly centered people.” These were people who enjoyed an enormous internal sense of accomplishment and well-being. What was the common behavior? They had pushed themselves to take personal risks! Understand: Taking risks doesn’t always mean risking your money. Sometimes it simply means risking yourself a little.
Selling your product, service or opportunity involves taking personal risks. You can seem pushy. People may not return your calls. People are sometimes rude. You can be rejected. (Actually, what you offer will be rejected at times). Rejection can sting. You run the risk of feeling emotionally drained.
The late business philosopher, Jim Rohn, reported the most common emotion he uncovered when coaching unfulfilled people was a feeling of regret. The sense that they had somehow done less than they were capable of. And as they looked back on their lives they asked, “Why didn’t I just go for it?” The rewards, when you find a way to “push through” can be enormously positive – sometimes staggering.
Network marketing is simple; it’s mostly about creating conversations, developing relationships and helping people. Successful network marketers adopt and cultivate a “mindset.” If I had to summarize what it is we really do in just a few words, I would offer this description: Make a friend. Meet their friends. Risk yourself!
Summarizing The Master Prospector’s Mindset
Have the true intention to help people. Be willing to take the lead in conversations. Have an external focus: “It’s not about me, it’s about you”. Fall in love with the right thing: People. Be “needs aware”. Listen more. Talk less. Ask questions.Sell what people are buying: Connectedness; Attention; Leadership; Empathy; Clarity.